It appeared as if a gorgeous flock of 41 swans had gathered at the Meyerson on Saturday, February 20. Instead of feathery birds, the 41 were the 2016 Dallas Symphony Orchestra League debs for the 30th annual Dallas Symphony Orchestra fundraiser. Despite the preceding days of brunches, teas and chic cocktail parties, the young women floated about the Meyerson lobby in gowns made of silks, satins and tulle. Some wore simple strands of pearls. Some wore spray tans. But all followed marching orders to wear their hair pulled back from their faces. After all, experienced vets had warned that loose curls played havoc when executing the legendary Texas Dip.
And then there was that problem of lipstick. It mustn’t kiss the gown’s white skirt for fear of leaving smudge marks.
As for footwear, deb Caroline McDaniel, who had bowed last year at La Fiesta de las Seis Banderas, opted for flats. It probably made walking down the stage’s steps and doing the dip a lot easier. Another deb advised her sister debs on how to manage the step leading up and out of the hall following their presentation.
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Tai Massimilian, Andrew Hall, Payton Scott and Mary Margaret Hancock
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Abby Tisdale and Samuel Boyd
But before the debs were presented on stage, it was time to chill and get to know white-tie members of the Honor Guard, who were serving as the evening’s escorts. When one deb was asked about her gent du jour, she fessed up that she had just met him that night.
While some deb mums fussed with the arrangement of the place cards at their tables for the dinner following the presentation in McDermott Hall, a small group of adults including Ball Chair Nancy Labadie in a Renee Ruiz from Tootsies, Jolie and Bart Humphrey, and Kim and Bob Clark relaxed with plenty of room to sit, chat, sip and munch at a super-duper VIP reception in the Horchow Hall. There never seemed to be more than two people in line at the bar. Servers offered silver trays of hors d’oeuvres. According to Honor Guard vet John Cooper, who had lost 15 pounds thanks to cutting back on soda and eating half-portion courses, the winning tasty of the night was the Beef Wellington, hands down. Topics of the evening ranged from the doldrums of the oil business to upcoming plans for spring break.
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Marlee Westmoreland, Ellie Hurwitz, Faith Lee, Megahn Ringler, Sarah Butler, Hayward Hiltreth, Sophie Phifer and Victoria Wittemann
Just a few feet away, the sea of guests partied in the lower lobby with no food being distributed and line ups at the bars stretching in length, proving that VIP-ism has its perks. Didn’t matter. Everyone was having way too much fun. In from college, Marlee Westmoreland, Ellie Hurwitz, Faith Lee, Megahn Ringler, Sarah Butler, Hayward Hiltreth, Sophie Phifer and Victoria Wittemann were there for deb Laura Scully. Escorts Jet Tuman, Bradley Harrington, Bennett Campbell, Will Vanderstraaten and Walker Coffman passed on the flutes of champagne for bottles of beer.
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Jet Tuman, Bradley Harrington, Bennett Campbell, Will Vanderstraaten and Walker Coffman
As the waves of guests now started arriving via the Flora entrance with the debs’ portraits in the entry or the lower level valet, the crowd was filling to capacity. One woman bringing drinks to her friends gingerly managed the marble steps leading from the lower-level lobby to the landing. She slowly took one step at a time. Another young woman wasn’t so lucky, taking a spill as she walked up the staircase. Before white-tied escorts could come to her assistance, she was already back on her stilettos.
A couple or three or four gals in strapless gowns had to use both hands to hoist their bodices upward.
Speaking of fashion, a question was raised, “Is it all right to wear a white gown at a deb presentation?” Someone laughed, “No self-respecting man should.”
Another woman bringing drinks to her friends gingerly managed the marble steps. She slowly took one step at a time.
At 7:25 p.m., as the river of black tie and gowned guests continued to flow down to the lower-level reception, the escorts and deb fathers started showing signs of heading to the McDermott Hall’s backstage for the presentation.
Just five minutes later the flow of guests shifted now heading upstream to fill the hall.
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Marilyn Augur, Margaret Hancock and Ann Hardaway
Early arrivals in the hall included Marilyn Augur looking like a snow angel with daughters Margaret Hancock in blue and Ann Hardaway in red. Marilyn admitted that she hadn’t attended the ball since her daughters debuted back when. Now, she was attending her granddaughter Mary Margaret Hancock’s debut presentation.
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Cindrette McDaniel and Paige McDaniel
By 7:55 p.m. the rows of seats were starting to fill with folks like John Phifer Marrs, James Campbell, Bob Gibbs with cane in hand, Paige McDaniel with her mom Cindrette McDaniel and Austin Merritt. MIA were deb brothers Chance Cooley (he was at the St. Mark’s game) and Robbie Beal (he was home chowing down on Bubba’s fried chicken). The Meyerson ushers were doing a yeoman’s job of checking tickets and directing first-timers in the right direction. Old-timers looked a little surprised as one young woman’s voice was heard over the din calling out her friend’s name. Perhaps she didn’t realize that the Meyerson’s legendary acoustics could magnify her broadcast.
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Dixey Arterburn, Cynthia Beaird, Melissa Lewis, Nancy Labadie, Ginger Sager
Promptly at 8:09 p.m., the hall was filled except for three rows just to the left of the stage. Those seats were reserved for the fathers after presenting their deb daughters on stage. Cellphones were being readied to record favorite debs and their escorts. Emcee Stan Gardner opened the program introducing DSOL President Melissa Lewis, who in turn introduced Nancy. As ball chair, she recognized on stage her committee members (Cynthia Beaird, Dixey Arterburn, Ginger Sager and Barbara Paschall Averitt) and past ball chairs like Ball Founder Tincy Miller, Sharon Popham and Venise Stuart) as well as Honorary Ball Co-Chairs Lisa and George Longino, who were seated in the balcony, and her family.
Stan was then back at the podium introducing the Assembly officers (Claire Catrino, Sarah Frazee, Elizabeth Metzger, Madison Hassell, Marielle LeMasters, Elizabeth Dorsey, Katherine Hitzelberger, Fallon Schneider and Fallon Bock) and the Honor Guard officers (Willard Langhenry IV, Mark Lafferty II, Houston Waring, Charles Wysocki, Michael Machak, Andrew Perry and Austin Franks) on stage.
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Lowrie Reniger and John Reniger
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Peyton Porter and Matthew Glaser
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Payton Scott
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Ciara Cooley and Henry Howard
By 8:30, it was showtime for the individual introduction of the 41 debs at the top of the stage’s stairs. After stepping down the staircase on the arms of their fathers, they received a kiss on the cheek from their dads and stood alone centerstage to execute the dip. With the announcement of their escort, the young men entered from the right side of the stage, offering their hand to help the debs to their feet. Following a few snapshots, the couple exited down the stairs from the stage for the hall’s aisle and out the door. Where did they go? They headed backstage for the grand finale of all debs and escorts on stage to a standing ovation.
And where were the deb mothers? They had been carefully seated along the aisles, allowing them to make a quick exit following the presentation to join their husbands around the dance floor in the lobby.
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Meredith Weaver and Michael Barnes
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Lauren Beal, Austin Merritt, Gracie Beal, Simona Beal, Andy Beal and Tasha Beal
As the parents waited and the guests filled the lobby and overhead balcony to watch the first dance, organizers in formal attire accessorized with headsets secured a path for the deb swans and their white-tie escorts to follow from the hall to the dance floor. As the girls arrived on the arms of their escorts, the couples were separated with the debs released on the dance floor searching for their parents, while the escorts were on their own.
The first dance of the night had the 41 dads and 41 debs managing to waltz on the cramped dance floor to the tunes of the Jordan Kahn orchestra. Every now and then a father would take a chance and twirl his daughter under his arm without colliding into another couple. Despite the coziness, there wasn’t a frown to be seen either on the dance floor or from the watching crowd.
One engineering type commented that there’s just too little space for more than 160 people to dance (41 debs + 41 dads + 41 mom + 41 escorts). Perhaps the solution is to hold the affair at Cowboys Stadium. Nah! Wouldn’t be the same.
For more photos of the 41 debs, escorts and parents, check out MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.