A potential train wreck was on the Dallas fundraising schedule. It was last Friday when two major dinners were in place at the same time. Yipes! Out of 365 days in the year, how could this have happened? Well, the situation started months ago when the Dallas Arboretum announced its gala for the Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden would take place on Friday, September 20. (Originally the garden and its gala had been planned for an earlier date, but rain delays caused the garden to open later than scheduled.) Oops! The new date just so happened to be the very same night as the annual TACA RBC Wealth Management Custom Auction Gala at the Mansion.

Déjà vu! Just last year the Arboretum held its gala launch of the Dale Chihuly exhibition on the same night as the TACA Party On The Green.

Such a collision of important fundraising events taking place on the same night might be a problem. After all, how does one choose between biggies? But, luckily, there were enough generous folks to sell out both the outdoor-chic and black-tie events. Why, one TACA veteran couple came up with a Solomon-like solution — they would attend the Arboretum event and send a $10,000 check to TACA.

Then the week before the big night, weather forecasts predicted one minor hitch — rain! After a summer that had been as parched as a wrangler heading up a cattle drive’s final days, the meteorologists were downright giddy at the prospect of 60% showers.

On the other hand, the Arboretum folks who had garnered national press about their expansive garden put into action a rain plan. Just in case the weather guessers were right, the cocktail reception in the new garden would be replaced by cocktails on the terrace next to the Rosine Hall. And, of course, the terrace would be tented. Then dinner and festivities would take place in Rosine Hall.

Across town, the TACA Co-Chairs Heather and Bill Esping and staffers were staying loyal to their annual POA. To them, rain was no big deal. After all, the auction was always indoors. So, the only change would be the transition between the cocktail reception in the Promenade to the tables set up in the restaurant, wine cellar, dining room, bar and various suites. Instead, the well-mannered guests would just take the hallway connecting the hotel proper to the dining facilities.

And the 325+ guests lived up to the look and feel of the black-tie event.

Alexander McQueen, Jimmy Choo and Bryan Atwood

First, there was the fashion snapshots of the night — Event Co-Chair Heather Esping in Lanvin with Jimmy Choo shoes; Christie’s auctioneer Andrea Fiuczynski combining a Naeem Khan shrug with her Jill Sanders cocktail dress; and Honorary Co-Chair Barbara Daseke in a 15-year-old Donna Karan. For shoe lovers, there were Lynn McBee in Alexander McQueen, Auction Item Chair Wanda Gierhart in Bryan Atwood and TACA Chairman of the Board Nancy Carlson in Louis Vuittons.

Niven Morgan, Muffin Lemak and Shelby Wagner

The chatter of the night ranged from Niven Morgan’s preparing for his 15^th anniversary and launching a new men’s product in the following week. . . Margo Keyes being solo due to husband Jim’s being “trapped” in California (but Jim later showed up!) . . . Alicia Wood reporting that 100 more tickets have been sold for Tablescapes this year. In fact they’ve had to add two more tables for the lunch with James Farmer. . . Lynn explaining that husband Allan McBee was in Tyler. . . Adorably cute Vogue Associate Publisher David Stuckey was part of the receiving line meeting and greeting a bunch of new friends. . .Past TACA RBC Wealth Management Custom Auction Gala Co-Chairs Kit and Kemp Sawers breezing in without a care in the world. Past chairs of any event tend to be like that, don’t you know.

DIning in the library

After much cocktailing, catching up and checking out the live auction items on display in the ballroom, the guests headed to their assigned seats throughout the Mansion. For their reward, they discovered beautifully displayed tables and lighting that would have made the Wicked Witch of the West look downright pretty. But being pretty just isn’t enough. Mansion Chef Bruno Davaillon prepared a menu that included chilled ahi tuna with tomato jelly and heirloom tomato in a sea broth followed by Strubb Ranch prime filet and short rib on a sweet potato puree with pickled root salad and Thai herb with Moet Hennessy wines. As delicious as it all sounded, one sushi-loving guest passed on the ahi tuna saying, “It just doesn’t smell right.” No problem. Everyone else at the table dug in.

Main dining room

Following dinner, the guests like children waking up on Christmas morning discovered a bounty of desserts (Chocolate Composition, Classic Carrot Cake, Berries Panna Cotta Glass, Pistachio Cherry Macaron, Blueberry Lemon Cheesecake and Mini Cone) masterminded by Mansion Pastry Chef Nicolas Blouin. And, of course, more of the bubbly and grown-up refreshments.

Everyone was having a good time, except for a couple of people like Faye Briggs, who was suffering from a mighty headache and headed for the valet with Ralph Gorman.

But the partying continued festively and loudly. . . very loudly. But what could you expect when you have more than 325 partiers partying? It was a party, for heaven sakes!

Andrea Fiuczynski and David Stuckey

But the time to get down to business was at hand, and the ballroom started filling with people with bidding paddles in hand. For some it meant reserved places in the rows or at tables near the front of the stage. Alas, some of those special guests either decided to stand on the sidelines or continue their conversations on the promenade. The results? Two or three prime positions were as empty as a Target parking lot on Easter Sunday.

It was going to be an interesting auction. Fewer items than last year and a bigger goal!

Auctioneer Andrea, who does 25 auctions a year, had said earlier in the evening that her job was to “make spending money fun.” Evidently, this group didn’t need any help in the fun department. Despite having one of the swiftest and most finalizing palm gavels in the business, Andrea never seemed to get the guests to turn down the chatter volume. Unlike last year’s herd of guests, this one just wouldn’t settle down.

One couple who had prime seats finally gave up and headed home because of the noise. At one point, Wanda took the mic and tried to get the attention of the chatty Cathies and Charlies. It only seemed to give the C’s something more to talk about.

In a change of POA, the “Farm-To-Table Dinner” offering was on the auction bloc in the middle of the program instead of the tail end. With paddles waving, it added scrambling activity to the noise factor.

Then Chef Kent Rathbun took over the mic to pitch the “At Home With The Rathbuns” package. Let’s face it. When Kent takes over, the big guy is like your junior high school coach — he knows how and with whom to make eye contact to get the message across.

Dawn Spalding, Amy and Les Ware

But despite the hubbub, many happy faces were beaming over their prizes — Bill Esping got a kiss from wife Heather for the “Fashion Week Through the Eyes of Vogue;” Lisa and Bill Ogle snapped up “Art Basel Miami Beach;” the wine cellar diner with Emmanuel Villaume went to Adam Carter; Suzy and Larry Gekiere are headed to Vegas for the “Ultimate Las Vegas Oasis;” after spending part of the summer in London, Nancy and Clint Carlson won the “Luxury in London” package; and still another kiss reward was exchanged by Amy and Less Ware for landing the “Retreat in the French Riviera.”

Barbara Daseke and Heather and Bill Esping

Michele Vobach, John Swords, Tara Lewis, Nick Even, Kent Rathbun, Lynn McBee and Stephen Vobach

As for the Rathbun dinner, it went up for bid twice and was won by a slew of folks including Nick Even, Tara Lewis, John Swords, Michele and Stephen Vobach and the McBees.

Farm To Table bidding

As for the “Farm To Table” package for 40 couples, 26 paddles went up. Translation: Some folks bought more than one pair @ $750 resulting in a swift $30,000 for dining in a pasture. Worth every delicious penny!

Despite the volume and the competition with the Arboretum for this night of nights, TACA Executive Director Becky Young was all smiles. Seems that once again the gala broke another record, raising $615,000 with $195,000 resulting from the auction alone.

Just goes to show — noisy can be profitable.

Sleeping on the job

People who love animals, both the two- and four-legged kind, gathered at the Omni on Saturday, September 21, for the 75^th anniversary celebration of the SPCA of Dallas.

Deets to follow, but enjoy the photos on the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery. There’s a litter. . . or rather, a lot of ‘em.

There are behavioral experts who say that animals bring a calm to human lives. Don’t know if that’s true or not, but on Saturday, September 21, at the Omni Dallas Hotel, two-legged guests came together to celebrate the Diamond Anniversary of the SPCA of Texas helping four-legged ones.

Snoozing puppies up for adoption

At the far end of the reception hall some puppies were all pooped out, other partied hardy and kittens looked longingly up for a “fur-ever home.” While the wee ones stayed protected in playpens, the 1,000 black-tie types knew no bounds in the main reception area outside the Dallas Ballroom, where the silent auction was underway.

Gala Chair Whitney Eichinger had blended the diamond anniversary with a “Diamonds Are Fur-Ever” theme that would have pleased even James Bond.

Sam Saladino, Jenna Turner Alexander and Brendan Higgins

And, of course, what is more synonymous with the world of Bond than beautiful people, and they were indeed there. Jenna Turner Alexander never looked better, revealed that not only were she and KTVT anchor Brendan Higgins engaged, they were exchanging “I do’s” in just two weeks. . .  Linda and Steve Ivy were talking about a future trip to Antarctica. She had thought about bringing her Judith Lieber penguin purse, but opted for her Lieber orange dog clutch in memory of her late pooch Tiffany. . .

Steve and Linda Ivy

Jody Dean had two gals on his arms — daughter Maddie and gal pal Fiona Pestell. Seems some of Fiona’s family was due in the next day and Jody was thinking the newly dedicated Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden would be a perfect spot to take them. . .  Honorary Co-Chair Jan Rees-Jones stole the show in her Abi Ferrin figure-fitting black gown with feathered insets around the fishtail hem. Wise husband Trevor stepped aside as cameras flashed, saying, “Tonight is her turn in the spotlight.” Jan quickly responded, “You’re embarrassing me. It’s about the animals!” But don’t go feeling sorry for Trevor. His old pal Avery Johnson and wife Cassandra were on the scene. . .  And speaking of figures in form-fitting gowns, Diamond Anniversary Co-Chairs Jocelyn White and Stacey Kivowitz stood out in white and black gowns looking like they had been made by Mattel. . . . Animal-loving Ann and David Vondenstein were taking the night off from their twin girls.. .  For Holly and Stubbs Davis, it was a bittersweet night. You see, September 21 was the birthday of their old buddy Larry Hagman.

Jocelyn White and Stacey Kivowitz

When the doors to the ballroom opened, the partying continued. While some brought favorite dates (Lisa Fine and Brad Kelly, Judith Lifson and Sam Saladino, Anne Reeder and Frank Hytken, Janelle and Larry Friedman and D’Andra Simmons and Jeremy Locke), others required carriers and leashes for their dates. Arthur “For the Love of Dogs” Benjamin brought his “two-year-old Christmas Miracle” Bandit wearing a black tie; Jean Fine had her Pasha tableside enjoying a glass of water. As for the pooches, they seemed right at home in the room full of guests.

Jan and Trevor Rees-Jones

In keeping with the “Diamonds At Fur-ever” theme, SPCA President James Bias and “Special Agent Scruffy” arrived a la James Bond, via video. This was followed by a proclamation being presented, recognition of Jan Rees-Jones and the presentation of Spencer Humanitarian Award to Claire Swartz, who was truly shocked by the announcement.

Adding to the celebration was emcee Ron Corning, who got the evening started with his wry wit: “By the way, the Kibbles ‘n Bits instead of croûtons on the salad is a really nice touch.” The animal people loved it.

Then auctioneer Mike Jones took the mic and started the bidding with Chef Richard Chamberlain joining him. A dinner by Richard with wine furnished by Wendy Krispin went not once but twice for $16,000. In fact, Wendy peppered other auction packages with additional perks throughout the program.

The Texas Hill Country package that included a trip for the winner’s pet at the Barking Hound Village raised $5,000.

Keith Russell and Luke

When the shout-out for donations came, the Keith Russell family came to the stage with Luke. The mixed-breed pooch had had a pretty miserable life before being adopted by the Russells. He had been chained up and neglected. While Luke looked a little bewildered by all the attention as the rally for funds was underway, he turned to Keith for some reassurance that he wasn’t up for bid. When last seen, Luke and his dad were heading for the comforts of home. Thanks to funds raised at the gala, the efforts to save other Lukes will continue.

For more pictures from the evening, check out the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.

While music pros, like the Dallas Morning News’s Scott Cantrell, have reported on soprano Renee Fleming‘s performance for the Dallas Symphony Orchestra Gala, the fashions and fab faces in the audience were simply breathtaking. Yes, despite the rain puddles that had ladies lifting their hems, the day’s rain didn’t dampen the glamour of the season’s first formal gala at the Meyerson on Saturday, September 28, chaired by Anne and Steve Stodghill.

Check out the two pages of pictures on MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.

Some situations require stretching that extra inch . . . or foot. So, the September 28th Dallas Symphony Orchestra Gala was such a situation. Dallas was in a 7-day cycle of weather. It had rained the previous Saturday and it was going to rain on the fundraiser’s Saturday night.

Luckily, it stopped in time for folks to arrive in their best bib-and-tucker. Still there were sizable puddles between the valet parking and the Meyerson’s front door. So, the ladies lifted the skirts of their elegant gowns and puddle-hopped through the itty-bitty ponds.

Dinner table

It was well worth the wade. Inside, production designer Todd Fiscus had fulfilled the goal of Gala Co-Chairs Anne and Steve Stodghill — blending art and music. Tables were adorned with deep red and black table clothes and centerpieces of the richest and most colorful fall flowers since Rembrandt picked up a paint brush. Some tables boasted elegant chairs with settings of fine China with crystal; others in the shadow of towering floral arrangements had banquet seating heading up rectangular tables.

But all this fine artistry was overshadowed by the fashions and chit-chat of the hundreds of guests.

Let’s cut to the chase.

Jessie and Charles Price

Pat Smith

Nicole Miller never looked as good as worn by Katherine Coker. . . Jan Rich looked as if she were preparing for an elegant Texas-OU weekend in an oranger-than-orange Tom and Lynda Platt. Husband Jeff Rich admitted that he appreciated the occasions when she wore the outfit because it was easy to spot in a crowd. . . Barbara Daseke blended the designers with a simple black top topped off with a Balenciaga necklace with magenta crystals and a magenta skirt by Armani. Husband Don shunned the black tie look and opted for a purple silk embossed Zegna tie to match Barbara’s killer look. . . Speaking of husband/wife teams, Shirley McIntyre was in a Ralph Rucci grey cape over an Alexander McQueen outfit. Husband Bill shrugged the OMG designer situation and described his tuxedo, “Mine is by JC Penney!” . . . Nicole Kiriaski was wearing a Free People gown. . . Cynthia Timms was in a Monique Lhuillier. . . Jessie and Charles Price were in Japanese designer Issey Miyake. Her gown, his tie. . . Glamorama Pat Smith’s dress started out as a Teri Jon. Then a local “faircloth” designer added some embellishments. Ah, but when you’re working with Pat, are embellishments required?

Steve and Anne Stodghill

So, what about the Gala Co-Chairs? Anne and Steve had their ducks in a row for this evening regardless of the weather outside. Flaming red-haired wife Anne was wearing a Rubin Singer design. Dang if those red-haired-crowned gals have to be careful about their outfits. But this one was dramatically grand. If Rubin is new to your vocabulary, he’s a third-generation Russian couturier and has earned a reputation from his creations for Beyonce. Evidently dear Annie made quite an impression. Seems soprano Renée Fleming asked who the designer was backstage. . .  Attorney Steve was splendiferous in white-tie-and-tails from Huntsman on Savile Row. Just a couple of days before, the twosome had returned from a whirlwind tour of Europe. Steve’s review? “Istanbul is one of my Top 5 cities. It’s really cool.”

Greg Abbott, Coley and Jennifer Clark and Ross Perot

Margaret McDermott

As for the wheelchair brigade, it was top notch and totally surrounded by the likes of Ross Perot. While Texas Attorney General/Honorary Chair Greg Abbott checked in with Jennifer and Coley Clark, Dan Lewis recalled how wife Marilea had campaigned as a district judge with Abbott in the past. . . Across the way, arts doyenne Margaret McDermott was the belle of the ball as usual with everyone courting her.

Then the Meyerson chimes rang and guests headed to their tables for dinner, the DSO concert with Renée and the after-party with Lucy Wrubel at the helm.

More fashions and faces can be found at MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.

If you were holding out to the last minute for Children’ s Medical Center’s Celebratio n of Our Century Gala Saturday night, you’re way too late. It’s so sold out!

But if you were one of the 800 who were early enough and smart to get their tickets pronto, be prepared. Don’t expect long-haired Jennifer Hudson at the black-tie gala at the Omni Dallas Hotel. Nope. She’s cut off her long hair and is sporting a new pixie cute.

Didn’t want you to be too surprised. Just wanted you to have a grand time celebrating CMC’s 100 years of caring for munchkins.

There are times when keeping up with Mayor Mike Rawlings is tougher than hot-footing it with a roadrunner. Friday, October 25, was such a day. From lunch to two dinners, the man was in transit nonstop for nonprofits in addition to running the city of Dallas.

Ambassadors For Hope

The Vogel Alcove’s Ambassadors of Hope Awards Luncheon at the Omni on Friday, October 25, was one of the events where emotions ranged from joy to poignancy.

Vogel Alcove children singing on stage

The happiness was rather overwhelming as guests watched the children of Vogel Alcove sing on stage and the honorees were recognized (Doris Budner Award for the late Sheila Chapman, Thelma Vogel Award for Mayor Mike Rawlings, Corporate Champion for Kimberly-Clark Corporation, Media Partner for Rucker & Co., Kids Helping Kids for Girl scout Troop #2996 and Volunteer Award for Regina Bruce).

Jeannette Walls

Even keynote speaker Jeanette Walls managed to skillfully tell her story with humor and reality about her so perfect life that wasn’t so very perfect as a child and how it confronted her one day as she discovered her mother digging through the trash on the streets of New York City.

Jennifer Sampson

However, when Luncheon Co-chairs Janelle Pinell and Ricki Rabin along with Vogel Alcove CEO Karen Hughes discussed the plight of homeless children, the faces in the audience could not help but register the overwhelming concern and sorrow for the homeless children of Dallas. The reality hit home that every day there are 20-30 children hoping to get a chance for assistance by the Vogel Alcove. And then there was the video which had children providing laughter (“I want to be a rap star.”) to sadness (“I want to be happy” and “I want to go home”).

Mayor Mike Rawlings and Gunnar Rawlings

Mike Rawlings, who was accompanied by his son Gunnar, admitted that when he was the “Homeless Czar” involved with successful programs that “Vogel Alcove was at the top of the list and used its money well.”

As one person put it so succinctly, “The children of Vogel are homeless but not hopeless.”

Funds from the lunch including a $25,000 matching gift challenge were designated to go to the Vogel Alcove’s $3.2M campaign for the remodeling of City Park Elementary School “for the expansion of our programs and services.” Within the 55,000-square-foot former DSID school, “homeless children will be able to learn, play and feel safe and cared for.”

H. Neil Mallon Award Dinner

Just the VIP reception for the World Affairs Council’s 30^th Annual H. Neil Mallon Dinner was packed in the Anatole’s Wedgwood Room lobby. Even a slide rule would have had problems trying to squeeze through this group of OMG impressive types like the honorary chairs (Nancy and Richard Fisher, Fort Worth Mayor Betsy and Tom Price and Micki and Dallas Mayor Mike Rawlings), the dinner chairs (Marjorie Adams, Barbara and Steve Durham, Kay Bailey Hutchison, Matrice Ellis-Kirk and Ron Kirk, Melinda and Mike Lafitte and Tina and Trey Morsbach) for starters. But there were a couple of good reason for the quantity and quality of guests. First the 30^th H. Neil Mallon Award was being presented to Lucy Billingsley. Second, it was featuring National Geographic contributor/photographer Joel Sartore.

Looking quite proud was Lucy’s mother, Margaret, whose husband, the late F. Trammell Crow, also received the award.

In the Chantilly Ballroom with a sea of tables covered in Mediterranean blue tablecloths, the guests were welcomed by World Affairs Council Board of Directors Chair Robert Kantner and President/CEO Jim Falk welcomed the group.

Following a dinner of grilled filet of beef on wilted spinach, wild mushroom sauce, pan seated Chilean sea bass, white wine butter sauce, quinoa pilaf with dried fruits and steamed broccolini and roasted golden beets followed by dessert of a trio of Crème Brûlées (maple, chocolate and traditional), Danny Rollins of presenting sponsor Alcatel-Lucent introduced the video tribute to Lucy in which Mike Rawlings described Lucy as “a woman of the world right here in Dallas.”

As the lights came up, Marjorie Adams and Matrice and Ron Kirk introduced Lucy. Matrice said, “We’re all better off because of Lucy.” While husband Ron diplomatically followed up with, “Really the only three words a woman wants to hear come out of a man’s mouth are: ‘Honey, you’re right.’”

Lucy Billingsley hoisting the H. Neill Mallon Award

As the crowd rose to give Lucy a standing O, the petite red-haired business woman hoisted the award high in the air. Her acceptance was so typical of Lucy: “Matrice—Eloquence. Skip Ron!” Says, “I’m not anyone to honor. But boy do I love it! … I’m representing all of us.. . . ” “What a world … what a city … what an evening. Thank you all.”

Joe Sartore

To top of the evening, Joel gave the keynote speech. Far from being a lesson in photography and what’s the best type of camera to use, Joel showed how his life has evolved from his first camera to shooting around the world. Somehow, he smoothly wove in the importance of saving endangered species and environmental education for children. Using humor, sincerity and a collection of amazing photographs, he was the perfect way to compliment an evening honoring “a woman of the world.”

Shaken Not Stirred

It was a typical night for Mayor Mike Rawlings. He had no sooner attended the Neil Mallon Dinner at the Anatole, then he was up and rushing over to the Adolphus for the Friends of Wilkinson Center’s “Shaken Not Stirred” black tie fundraiser. Who says you can’t be in two places at the same time?

Lisa Sievers, Micki and Mike Rawlings, Vickie Thompson and Sandra Pomeroy*

But the Wilkinson event presented by ORIX Foundation was a must. After all Event Chair Lisa Sievers and Wilkinson Center Executive Director Anne Reeder had arranged for Mike and wife Micki to be the evening’s honorary chairs. Luckily, his presence wasn’t missed in the early part of the evening due to the silent auction and the cocktail reception.

Frank Hytken and Anne Reeder

But his timing was perfect as he arrived just in time for a couple of photos and the elegant seated dinner (A salad of Poached pear with field greens, gorgonzola cheese, candied pecans with lemon dressing; entrée of duo of smothered beef short rib and herb marinated chicken, merlot demi and hickory smoked potatoes; and dessert of grand Marnier crème Brule with fresh berries and chocolate mousse cake) in the ballroom that was decked out like James Bond had ordered it. On each of the 30 tables were napkins displayed as if they were tuxedo shirts with black ties.

Shaken Not Stirred table settings

After dinner, the popular fundraising game of “heads and tails” was played followed by Anne’s and Mike’s emphasizing the past successes and future plans for the 31-year old organization that has evolved from a neighborhood food pantry to a multi-service program that addresses the underlying causes of poverty and helps them overcome the obstacles. This past February thanks to donations an funds raised by the annual gala, the Wilkinson Center opened a Family Education Center for the expansion of its services.

In addition to 261 dinner guests, 250 arrived later for the after party that lasted until the wee hours of Sunday. Too bad they weren’t able to join the supper and live auction in which such items were auctioned off as:

• “In the Swing,” a once-in-a-lifetime trip for two to the Master’s Championship Golf Tournament.  Includes airfare, three-night hotel stay and two passes to the final weekend of the tournament.
•  “No Reservations Needed,” Celebrity Chef Wendy Krispin will whip up a menu sure to please for ten in your home, ranch home or lake house (within two hours of Dallas). Savor a specially designed menu complete with wine pairings.
•  “Off to the Races,”  a trip for two to Oaklawn in Hot Springs, AR, with airfare and a two-night stay at The Arlington Resort Hotel and Spa. Race day includes a tour of the racetrack and barns, box seats, VIP visit to announcer’s booth for a race call and presentation of the trophy at the winner’s circle.
•  “Westward Bound,” Enjoy the Fort Worth Stock Show as never before as you and a friend look stylish in your new hand-crafted, custom-made Olsen-Stelzer cowboy boots and Resistol cowboy hats for two! After an exciting day at the Stock Show and Rodeo, relax with a stay at the Worthington.
•  “Sports Authority,” the legendary Norm Hitzges and The Ticket Sports Radio invite four people to be their guests on the Norm Hitzges radio show. Be the first to know breaking sports news! Breakfast for four before the show included.

After the festivities, Mayor Mike headed home to rest up for another day of being everywhere.

* Photo credit: Andrew Buckley

Honors were being handed out at the area’s two most popular hotels, Omni Dallas and Hilton Anatole, on Saturday, October 26. Two events dealt with health care and one with education. All three raised money and had a great time doing it.

St. Jude Evening Under The Stars

Lydia Haggar Novakov, Marian Haggar Bryan, Carole and Scott Murray*

Over at the Omni Dallas hotel, Carole and Scott Murray were honored at the 13^th annual St. Jude Evening Under the Stars party. The Murrays are longtime supporters of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, which benefited from the gala, western-themed event that was co-chaired by Marian Haggar Bryan and Lydia Haggar Novakov. Cindy Feld served as party chair, while Holly and Doug Brooks co-chaired the host committee. Among the 900 in attendance were Rick C. Shadyac Jr., St. Jude’s CEO, and his wife, Ann.

Doug Brooks, Cindy Feld, Holly Brooks and Elizabeth and Perry Smith*

Following dinner (beet carpaccio, filet of beef and seared chicken, new potatoes and roasted vegetables, and assorted Bundtini’s) and a live auction, guests enjoyed a blowout performance by top Nashville songwriters

Phillip White and Sonny Curtis*

Tommy Lee James, Don Poythress, Phillip White and West Texas native Sonny Curtis, lead guitarist in Buddy Holly’s pre-Crickets band. Earlier, Sonny explained that he was participating at the suggestion of Alabama’s Randy Owen—a longtime St. Jude’s supporter—and was very pleased to be doing so.

Commit To Cure

For decades Dr. Alan Menter has been the adored and respected doctor of lotions and potions. When it came to skin diseases, Alan was the man. Teenagers suffering through the agonies of acne found him to be the go-to man for their formative years. Vicki Chapman recalled, “You don’t make an appointment with him at 4 p.m. You’ll be there until 7.” Why? Because the good doctor is always running late due to his thoughtful handling of previous patients.

Pam and Dr. Alan Menter**

Newcomers quickly learned that Alan’s fame extended way beyond the patient care world. In 1968, he had been a part of the top-ranked Springboks rugby team.

But on Saturday, he was the man to be honored for his lifelong work in the area of psoriasis.

OK, so go laugh. Psoriasis is that disease that’s on TV. . . the heartbreak of psoriasis.

But to the hundreds of medical industry experts from around the world who were present for the Commit To Cure gala in the Anatole’s Grand Ballroom, the disease was a fearful condition and Alan was the knight leading the charge.

Zambian Vocal Collection**

The evening’s entertainment ranged from Zambian Vocal Collection to Troy Cartwright and a live auction. But the highpoint of the evening was the plaudits paid to this remarkable physician.

It started off with a heartfelt tribute by Alyssa Krafsur, who has suffered from the pain and appearance of the disease. Before she became a well-known speaker on psoriasis, she was just a suffering little girl with both severe psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis. Then she met Alan, who treated and helped her during those years. Alyssa and her mother would drive to Dallas from El Paso on a regular basis just to have Alan treat her. With the care that would make Marcus Welby seem like a Spanish inquisitor team leader, Alan worked with her to curb the disease.

Stephen Giles and Clarice Tinsley**

Upon receiving his award, Alan showed the grace and articulation that has made him an international star on skin diseases, as well as beloved by his friends and patients who filled the audience including Honorary Chair Richard Fisher (“My chief claim to fame is Alan is my doctor”) along with mom-in-law Dee Collins Torbert, Gala Chair Julie Hubach, Emcee Clarice Tinsley with husband Stephen Giles, Francois Fournier (“Everyone knows Alan”), Dr. Caitriona Ryan, Dr. Alexa Kimball (“He treats his patients like he treats his daughters and sons”) and Baylor Health Care System CEO/President Joel Allison, who passed on attending the Baylor football game just to be at the dinner.

In his remarks, Alan said that psoriasis used to be considered part of leprosy. Today 120 million suffer from the disease, with 7 million of them living in the U.S. In addition to the pain and ugliness of psoriasis, 10% of the victims struggle to ward off additional “inside” problems: liver, lung, etc. In closing he revealed that two of his brothers have psoriasis.

As a result of the dinner and in recognition of Alan, $1.175 million was raised.

Northwood University’s Distinguished Women

While Dr. Menter was being applauded in the Anatole’s Grand Ballroom, Northwood University also was in the accolade business across the complex in the Coronado Room with its Distinguished Women Induction Dinner.

The class of 2013 was being feted following a two-day program in which they learned about Northwood and even kicked back at D’Andra Simmons (2011 honoree) palazzo.

Susanne Dicker and Harriet Miers**

Yvonne Crum and Kevin Fegan**

As Susanne Dicker (1984) snapped photos on her pearl-covered smartphone, 2013 recipient Harriet Miers chatted with friends. . .  Yvonne Crum (2001) and Barbara Brice found a spot to sit and talk,  and Leslie Anne Crozier (2006) arrived in a flourish of colors.

Leslie Ann Crozier**

Barbara Brice**

BTW, if you’re wondering who the gals were in this year’s class, they included

• Dallas’ Harriet Miers and Mary Ann Thompson-Frenk
• Fort Worth’s The Honorable Congresswoman Kay Granger and Patricia Chambers
• Margaret Peale Everett of Sherman, Connecticut
• Linda Orlans of Troy, Michigan
• The Honorable Mayor Mary Roche of Indian Wells, California
• Lorraine Schultz of Bloomfield Hills, Michigan

The Distinguished Women’s Award honors women who reflect the values which Northwood espouses for its students:

• commitments to free enterprise
• the partnership of arts and business
• the management of global commerce.

* Photo credit: Glenn Hunter

** Photo credit: Jeanne Prejean

Leave it to Janelle and Larry Friedman to hit it out of the ballpark—again. A couple of year ago, they orchestrated a Children’s Medical Center benefit. The CMC folks were so impressed with their efforts, they came a-calling for the Friedmans to put together an event for the CMC’s 100^th anniversary.

Janelle and Larry Friedman

Talk about tantalizing! But they weren’t going to just have a birthday cake and party favors. No, siree. The Friedmans went for it like a freshman cheerleader after a senior quarterback. Children’s had been vital in the lives of one of their children and the Friedmans were committed to payback in a very good way. They wouldn’t just throw a party. It would be an extravaganza for the Dallas jaw-dropping record books — “Celebrating Our Century”.

On Saturday, November 2, they delivered with just a couple of hiccups. But more about those later.

Vehicles arriving amid balloons

From the curb it was obvious that something was definitely up at the Omni Dallas Hotel. Mammoth white balloons with “100″ on them lined the driveway. As guests handed their cars over to the valet, there was a student drum corp setting an upbeat tempo.

Drum corp

From ground floor to the third floor, CMC seemed to be everywhere. Check-in took place on the ground level right as guests arrived. Instead of the usual rectangular tables with tablecloths and guests having to look down at those checking them in, there was a very professional, hotel-style registration Very smart. This allowed guests to get that registration stuff over with instantly and eliminated the need for tacky old check-in tables in the third-floor lobby.

Guest check-in

Welcome wall

After a ride up the escalators, guests were welcomed by a pink and purple light wall that said, “Celebration of Our Century” behind a glittering netted screen. Making a U-turn they entered a whimsical wonderland of pink and purple lit walls highlighted by tree limbs coated with white and silver. On the right were seven tiers of champagne flutes on a table with Jeroboams of Moet & Chandon ready for pouring. At the far end of the lobby was MASS Ensemble’s Katie Boeck playing the Earth Harp.

MASS Ensemble’s Katie Boeck

Over in a corner of the lobby was a velvet roped-off area. That was the scene of one of the hiccups. It was for the VIP meet and greet with the Pointer Sisters. When the trio arrived, the line had already formed. Guests were there; sisters were there. Only things missing were lighting—and a photographer. Not to worry. Guests were flexible and high tech. When they realized they were on their own, the guests pulled out smartphones and created a buddy system to record the grip-and-grin.

Kern and Marnie Wildenthal and Pam and Paul Southern

Alan and Sarah Losinger

Cyndi Bassel, Ross and Margot Perot

Susan and Joel Williams III

June McGuire, Bill and Kandis Hutchinson and Pete McGuire

Kathleen and Robert Gibson

As for the collection of 900 guests throughout the lobby, it was an interesting mix — politicos (Pete Sessions, Chart Westcott and Joel Williams III), socialites (Claire and Dwight Emanuelson, Sarah and Alan Losinger, Connie and Chris O’Neill, Claire and Dwight Emanuelson, Emilynn and Claude Wilson), nonprofit types (Brent Christopher, Kathleen and Robert Gibson, Jennifer Sampson, Marnie and Kern Wildenthal) and heavy hitters (Kathy and Richard Holt, Kandis and Bill Hutchinson, June and Pete McGuire, Margot and Ross Perot, Lynore and Robbie Robinson and Jimmy and Carl Westcott). They were all looking good and feeling better.

Janelle Friedman

Visiting with one and all were the Friedmans. Janelle, who had had back surgery two weeks before, was leaning on a custom-made crystal-laden cane and wearing a form-fitting red Oscar gown. No way an off-track back was going to keep her away. She claimed she was going to be on hand even if they had to bring her in on a stretcher. Like a wise husband, Larry knew his place. In honor of CMC’s red, he sported a red bowtie, socks and even underwear. . . or, at least, that’s what he said.

Dallas Ballroom

As the ballroom doors opened, mouths dropped. While some guests were as familiar with the Dallas Ballroom as their own home, they still weren’t prepared for what lay before them. Nowhere was the usual ballroom, except for the carpet—and who looked down? Across the far back of the room were fabulous light-blue walls surrounding a multi-tiered white stage. Across the way was a production platform that would have impressed Steven Spielberg. One Omni staffer looked at it in awe. Throughout the ballroom were tables of all types, shapes, sizes and décor. Some tabletops were like light boxes; chairs were dressed in a variety of fabrics ranging from glittery covers to elegant woven fabrics. The light around the room was a show in itself.

Dinner table

Even the table setting screamed “WOW!” Butter pats were in the shape of CMC’s red balloons on strings. At one table the confusion of the butter was so great that one man dabbed his finger across the “balloon” and reported, “It is butter.”

Initially the guests took their seats for a hearty four-course feast. But it was soon discovered that dining was going to be leisurely, to say the least, with 20 minutes between courses. On the good side, this time-out allowed for table-hopping, which this group did like youthful kangaroos. On the darn-it side, it resulted in a very extended night.

To get things going, a sponsor tribute video featuring “patient hosts” Ed Brady and Natalie Burraston was presented with a big old tip o’ the hat to million-dollar sponsor Alliance Data. It was a very clever way to reveal the event’s sponsors. So clever that 2013 Crystal Charity Ball Chair Caren Kline smiled in amazement. It ended with Ed being a “talk show” host interviewing CMC President/CEO Chris Durovich. After a thank you by the Friedmans (Larry: “This is just like my house. When my wife is done, there’s nothing left to say”) and an elaborate dance presentation filling the stage with professional dancers and children with red balloons, Chris told how CMC is the fifth-largest pediatric hospital in the U.S. and served 200K children last year.

Starlight Orchestra from New York

Guests had hardly had time to resume their table-hopping/dining when Starlight Orchestra from New York got the entertainment kicked off. They must have been fueled with Red Bull. Gyrating like metal detectors at a coin show, they bumped, bounced and blew everyone away.

Nicole Blue and Carmine Achtman

Carol Aaron

Nicole Blue and her buddy Carmine Achtman were so caught up with the moment, they joined the troupe on stage. Soon they were joined by a gent in a red plaid dinner jacket. As Nicole bounced hips with a female member of the ensemble, Carmine saw something in the audience that caused her to pause. She quickly signaled Nicole that it was time to return to their seats. Someone noted seeing Nicole’s mom, Carol Aaron. Standing in the middle of the ballroom, the diminutive brunette with blue eyes looked fabulous in a black Escada blouse. She also looked like an unhappy-camper parent waiting for an errant teenager past curfew. As Nicole and Carmine decided their stage appearance was done for the night, Tony Miller, who was seated nearby, hopped up and offered his hand to the ladies as they made their way down the stairs in their long gowns.

The Pointer Sisters

Guests at the base of the stage

For those who held out till 11, the wait was well worth it. The Pointer Sisters didn’t just take the stage, they stole it with a vengeance. Songs that rose to the top of the charts in the 70’s “jumped” the room’s energy to new highs. Pretty soon the base of the stage was filled with guests videotaping and bouncing like the Sisters.

Jennifer Hudson

But it was starting to get a bit late and, by the time the Sisters finished at 11:25 p.m., some guests were satisfied with their partying ways and headed home. Others stood their ground waiting to hear Academy Award winner Jennifer Hudson.

With her new pixie haircut and svelte figure, Jennifer took her place on stage just before midnight. While it had been a long day (she had quietly visited the CMC patients in the afternoon and requested no media coverage), Jennifer amazed the guests. When she sang “Hallelujah,” she could have just closed down shop and called it a day, but she continued on, providing everyone with sweet dreams of the night.

Yes, it was a century since the first baby camp in the Southwest opened and eventually became Children’s Medical Center. And over the past 100 years, 5M children have been treated. With the money raised by the Friedmans’ undertaking and support by sponsors like Alliance Data, the next 100 years is off to a good start. Happy birthday to Children’s and the children they have served and will serve.

For more photos, check the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery!

Saturday, November 9, was chock full of surprises. At one event T. Boone Pickens got a personalized guitar from Trace Adkins. At another one, three female impersonators entertained surprised guests. And at the last stop there was guest wrestling. No one can say Dallas isn’t diverse.

Big Black Tie Ball

Honoree T. Boone Pickens arrived too late for the meet-and-greet with Trace Adkins at the Big Brothers/Big Sisters’ Big Black Tie Ball at the Omni Dallas Hotel. Didn’t matter. The two plus Boone’s lady Toni Brinker had spent the day in Stillwater for the Oklahoma State University football win over Kansas. Why, Trace even sang the “Star Spangled Banner” at the game. Just the night before Trace had been in Nashville, where he taped the CMA Christmas special that will be shown on Tuesday, December 2. Then he hopped in his bus and made it to Dallas in time to join Boone and Toni for the trip to Stillwater.

J.W. Williams and Jay Rosser

How did the billionaire and the country-western singer hook up? Well, it seems Trace’s manager, J.W. Williams, called Boone a while back and said that Trace wanted to win Donald Trump’s Celebrity Apprentice. To do that, a donation of $100K to the Red Cross would help. Would Boone provide the assistance? Boone pitched in. In addition, Trace is the spokesperson for the Wounded Warriors, to which Boone also gives.

Marti and Larry Carlin, Ainsley Gibson, McKinley Gibson and Susanne and Chad Gibson

In the meantime, Boone’s team was very much present Saturday. Right-hand man Jay Rosser was introducing J.W. to one and all. Boone’s foundation director Marti Carlin had her whole family on hand including husband Larry and daughter Susanne Gibson with her brood (husband Chad and daughters McKinley and Ainsley).

John and Eryn Bakewell

Stephanie and Travis Hollman

While the VIP’s gripped and grinned with Trace and enjoyed the Roche Bobois-furnished VIP lounge, the rest of the 700 guests including Pat and Charles McEvoy, Eryn and John Blakewell, Stephanie and Travis Hollman, Linda and Jim Jennings, Irving Mayor Beth Van Duyne and Irving city councilors Dennis Webb and Gerald Farris checked out the silent auction in part of the Dallas Ballroom.

It was noted that there was a significant odor in the silent auction area that extended into the rest of the ballroom, where tables and staging were set up. Some thought it had the scent of a new car; another thought a doll; still another claimed a shower curtain. Ah, that last one won the cigar. Seems the two-story, custom-made rust and brown curtains that separated the two sections of the ballroom were made of vinyl. The reason for the color was to give the ballroom a “rustic” look.

When it was time to move into the dining room, the curtain partially opened to reveal a stage with the vinyl wall on both sides of the stage.

Toni Brinker, T Boone Pickens and Meredith Lamb

At the base of the stage, Boone greeted guests including Meredith Lamb, Cheryl Hall and Trish and Ron Bassett.

T. Boone’s custom-made guitar

Event Co-Chairs Susan Gray and Katherine Musick arranged to have Trace come out to introduce Boone, but signals got mixed. A video was shown just as a specially created guitar was brought out. It appeared that Trace was to present the guitar to Boone, but a voice over the PA continued. Boone and Trace looked a bit puzzled.

Being a gentleman, Trace was up-front, saying he had made a mistake. Nobody cared about the hiccup. They wanted more of the twosome and they got it.

“Wake Up With the WOLF”’s Liz Tyler interviewed the duo on stage. Trace admitted, “I was a terrible big brother. I had two little brothers; made ‘em jump off the house just to see what would happen. You guys are much better. Happy to report that neither of my two brothers hate me anymore. I’m here because Boone said he’s be here. On Celebrity Apprentice, I said I’m gonna bring Boone Pickens, and everybody else sat down! I worked in the oil field for 10 years.”

Trace Adkins and T. Boone Pickens

Boone recalled that as a youngster, he had no musical ability. In school “they started me on the triangle, and I couldn’t hit it. Then they gave me the sticks. . . Finally they told my mother not to have me come back to the rhythm band.”

About his newly acquired guitar, Boone said, “I’ll show it off, but I won’t play it.”

Other tidbits dropped on stage:

• Boone’s nickname is “Easy Pickens.”
• Boone doesn’t mind giving out his phone number because he’s always trying to make a deal.
• Trace said, “Boone gives more money to charity every year than Donald Trump ever gave in his whole life.”
• Boone recalled how on CNBC, Donald made a silly statement about oil. So, Boone said, “Donald, I won’t talk about real estate, if you don’t talk about oil. . . [But] I believe the guy is patriotic.”
• Boone declared that moving to Dallas in 1989 was one of three best decisions “I ever made.”

Following the interview, BBBS CEO Rob Roby told the assembled group that 5,075 boys and girls are “on our radar, plus the 10K we serve currently.” He explained that it takes $500 to remove a child from the waiting list.

Then the awards of the evening were handed out to:

• Chris Owens — The Neal Hawks Compassionate Spirit Award
• Mark Early — The Frank Bracken Visionary Leadership Award
• Richard R. Kilgust — The Tom Sloane Lifetime Achievement Award

To let guests know the results of being a “Big”/”Little” relationship, Big Brother Steve Burdick and former Little Brother John Richter told of their years together that resulted in John becoming a pilot for SkyWest Airlines. As much as John felt he got out of the program, it was obvious to all that Big Steve also was a better person for the program.

The Yes! Event: One Special Night

While the Big Brothers/Big Sisters were already settling down to dinner in the Omni’s Dallas Ballroom, the Legacy Senior Communities’ “The Yes! Event: One Special Night” was just getting underway across the hall in the lobby of the Trinity Ballroom. The festivities didn’t start until 7:30. When Omni catering service manager Rick Ayala was asked the reason for the late start, he explained the meal had to be kosher, so the cooking could not start until after sundown.

David Stern

David and Stacy Blank

Daniel and Carmine Achtman and Nicole Blue

Trinity Ballroom

Regardless of the time, the crowd of 400 filled the lobby with such folks as Rabbi David Stern, Stacy and David Blank, Lottye Brodsky and Bobby Lyle, Drs. Carmine and Daniel Achtman and sisters, Nicole Aaron Blue and Angela Aaron Horowitz, whose son, Sam, made national headlines and an appearance on “Ellen” with his bar mitzvah performance.

Also present was Neil Goldberg, who explained that his dad, Robert Goldberg, had rehabbed at Legacy after being in a car wreck.

Carol Aaron

Regarding Legacy’s importance for families, Board of Trustees Chair Carol Aaron said, “Our grandmothers, uncles, cousins, mother-in-laws and friends have all been among those treated [there] with dignity, respect and love.” She went on to say that they will be exploring new ways to expand Legacy’s facilities and services. For instance, the $440,000 raised from the evening will “go toward refurbishment of the rooms and common spaces for long-term residents and will help enhance their quality of life.”

As Carol emphasized, “Believe in what you do and do what you believe in. That has been our mantra since we opened in 1953.”

When the doors had opened at 8:15 p.m., the guests discovered a magnificent ballroom looking light a perfect moonlit night. The staging, created by Todd Events, was set against a backdrop of blue, three billboard-size video screens, a DJ booth in the center of the dance floor and two huge food stations on opposite sides of the room.

Lucy Wrubel

Diana Ross, Lady Gaga and Cher

And what about the evening’s entertainment? Since the occasion was to celebrate the 60 years that Legacy has been “providing housing and health care options for seniors of all faiths,” the entertainment spanned those 60 years in addition to DJ Lucy Wrubel in center court setting the pace. Just how did they cover those 60 years? Why, with Diana Ross, Cher and Lady Gaga. No, not in person. They had three fabulous female impersonators fill the bill, much to the delight of the guests.

Alive For 35

Across town, Dallas Contemporary was in great party shape despite having been open for more than 24 hours. Since the Dallas art organization was celebrating its 35^th anniversary, the powers-that-be decided to keep the place open and things happening for 35 hours — Alive For 35! Having started the day before, the fundraiser birthday bash ran from 8 p.m. to midnight. It could have continued for another 35 hours!

The Hensley Ensemble Gospel Choir

Ballet Folklorico Azteca

In the main gallery there were all types of food and G-rated entertainment. At one point in the evening The Hensley Ensemble Gospel Choir all in white sang to the rafters. For their finale, they paraded throughout the audience with colorful parasols. There was hardly enough time for guests like Matthew Simon and Shelby Wagner to jump up, get another drink and settle back at your table before the Ballet Folklorico Azteca started their performance. As colorful as the choir’s parasols had been, they seemed frozen in time compared the beautiful purple, blue and green skirts swirling on stage.

Will Card and Sara Stockstrom

Just a door away, other types of art were taking place. These weren’t quite as G-rated due to the squeamish factor. On one side of the room was the art of body tattooing taking place. With ink-stained white gloves, tattoo artist Will Card used Sara Stockstrom’s back as his canvas. To the side was the design that Will was copying onto her back. With ear buds firmly in place, Sara lay on a table with eyes shut and not a line in her face. On the other hand, observers like Stephanie Roberts and Niven Morgan had appropriate lines as they vicariously experienced the injection of ink.

An artist and his canvas

At the back of the gallery were David Nichols, Kelli and Allen Questrom. Kelli admitted that not only did she not have any tattoos, but her jewelry was very limited due to a skin allergy.

David Nichols, Allen and Kelli Questrom

Across the way from the tattoo studio was true interactive interplaying. James Gilbert was taking on all comers for a tussle of muscle on the wrestling mat.

One chap tested James’ ability and took it for a spin. Observer Brad Beaird reasoned that “chap” had been watching previous bouts and probably realized that James was getting a bit worn out and was ready to be flattened. But he wasn’t that worn out. He won that round.

On the sidelines, Sammey Mihos decided she was game for the challenge. But her party clothes were as appropriate as a suit of armor in a swim meet. So she exchanged her frock for more sporting attire. She didn’t need to go to all that bother. After a couple or three thuds on the mat, she had met her match. Despite sideline pals like Holly Reed, Robert Weatherly and Greg Haynes Johnson’s cheering (“Hey, go Karate Kid!” and “”Do it for Dallas!”), she had been flattened.

Robert Weatherly, Holly Reed, Greg Haynes Johnson and Brad Beaird

As Sammey left laughing, referee Jose Delgado chased after her with something in his hand. Seems Sammye’s lip pencil had fallen out during the match up.

Despite the below-freezing temperatures, the Crystal Charity Ball at the Hilton Anatole is still on for Saturday. Insiders report that guests are booking rooms for Saturday night. Interesting idea! Check in Saturday afternoon in your “grubbies” (you do have some, don’t you?), get all dolled up, go up to SĒR’s bar for a cocktail and a view of the ice-covered Dallas skyline and then take the elevator down to “Magnificent Manhattan.” While others are checking their wraps, you’ll just look right at home.

Afterwards, don’t worry one little iota about having a designated driver to get to your room. After a nice night’s sleep, have room service and then toddle on home Sunday afternoon.

Doesn’t that sound inviting? That’s what the Anatole folks thought, so they’ve dropped the original rate of $139 to $119 for a room Saturday. Why, your shoes cost more than that. If you want to take advantage of this rate and book your room, just call 214.748.1200. When you make your reservation, drop the fact that you’re attending CCB and want the rate.

Just returned from the Hilton Anatole where Crystal Charity Ball preparations are way underway. Like who needs to fly to NYC when we’ve got “Magnificent Manhattan” here.

Crystal Charity Ball’s Broadway

By Saturday night, a major case of cabin fever will have set in, so why not take your pretty, sweet time and head on over to the area’s biggest fundraiser for children’s nonprofits?

And that is what it’s all about — the children. Whether it’s teaching children how to swim or addressing the issue of suicide among youngsters, the CCB 100 are raising money for them. You may never know one of the children who benefit from this amazing fundraiser. That’s not the point. The goal of such fundraising is to help others, not to receive thank-you notes from the individuals who benefit from the effort.

And if you’re one of Saturday’s sell-out crowd in attendance, look around. Among the hifalutin types in long gowns and tuxedoes, look for the ones who are on the frontlines of helping the kiddos. They are the beneficiaries of 100 women, who have spent the past year raising millions of dollars to support their efforts to make “a difference for good.”

It’s the weekend and your eyes need a rest from the ice, snow and dank conditions outside. You just know there’s nothing like beautiful clothes to brighten up those baby blues/browns/hazels of yours. How about a gander at the area’s most glorious threads that were in full regalia at last Saturday’s Crystal Charity Ball? Despite icy conditions, nary a bejeweled slipper slid nor flowing silk hem got wet. Nope. The CCB, Hilton Anatole and the Jack Boles team made sure of that.

Francie Moody-Dahlberg

Reese Threadgill

So, settle back with a cup of hot cocoa or a chilled flute of your favorite bubbles and check out the clothes, jewelry, decoration and high kickers of Magnificent Manhattan on MySweetCharity’s Photo Gallery. There wasn’t a split end or loose thread to be found.

Alicia Wood

Pam Perella

Brian and Leslie Diers and Sharon and Mike Jones

High-stepping dancers

Oh, and don’t be surprised if you notice a lot of red. After all, this year’s theme was about the Big Apple!

Dallas was sheathed in ice. The kind of frozen tundra that causes school systems to cancel school the night before. It was looking bleak for Dallas-area activities the first weekend in December. Already the Adolphus parade had been cancelled for Saturday and the Dallas Marathon was on the verge of cancelling for Sunday.

Caren Kline

Still the 100 ladies of Crystal Charity Ball carried on. Perhaps it was because Chair Caren Kline had been stoking up her energy level all year with chocolate. She does love her chocolate, don’t you know.

Or, perhaps it was the inspiration of the children’s organizations that would benefit from the year-long efforts.

Regardless, these gals were going to have their event no matter what Ma Nature threw at them. But they did warn, “If you’re apprehensive about conditions, stay at home.” No way they were going to let someone venture out if they felt it unsafe.

If guests showed, wonderful. If not, the evening of “Magnificent Manhattan” would still go on. After all only once in the CCB’s history had a ball been cancelled. (FYI: It was 1963, just days after the Kennedy assassination.)

Actually, many didn’t want to stay home. Cabin fever was setting in and there was the loyalty factor, but some committee members and guests had lost power at their homes. So moving into the Hilton Anatole for the weekend with a special discount rate made the electrical loss not so bad.

Friday, December 6

But things don’t just magically happen for CCB. There was a heck of a lot of preparation to undertake with hands-on attention by committee members. Thursday and Friday were spent schlepping and setting up alongside event producer Tom Addis’ team. On Friday night, the members celebrated their year creating the event in Caren’s suite. In addition to the ladies-who-fundraise, Caren’s husband, Pete, and New Yorkers, Caren’s sister (Dale Pinto) and parents (Bettye and Robert Whiteman) were on hand. (How about a factoid? Papa Whiteman owns the rights to Liberty Magazine and the licensing rights for “Ripley’s Believe It or Not”.)

But it was an early evening because setting up the next morning was to come too soon.

The greatest challenge of the night was crossing the black-iced parking lot for cars. But the Anatole staff crossed their fingers and promised that by Saturday night, it would be safe and sound.

Saturday, December 7

By jingo, the Anatole staff not only lived up to their commitment to have a safe driveway, they created a heated enclosed tunnel leading from the porte cochère to the main entrance of the Chantilly ballroom lobby. Not a silk slipper or flowing train suffered from the damp surroundings. The only thing that could have been more preventive would have been having guests literally carried in chairs on board litters.

Even the drive to the event was pretty easy, thanks to slo-mo driving. According to Mike Wyatt, the trip was nothing compared to his recent traffic experience in Brazil. It took him seven hours to go 24 miles from the hotel to the airport in Sao Paulo.

If anyone had thought a poor attendance would result due to the icy weather, they were so on the wrong track. Reservations Chair Christi Carter admitted that even she was amazed and delighted at the turnout of nearly 900. Ninety percent of the guests showed up! One CCB vet decided that it was because “everyone had so much invested in the event’s year-long efforts to raise money for the children.”

Living statue

But once inside there was no sign of the frigid exterior. Along the entry were living statues on pedestals holding metal balls against art deco scenery. Surprised Anatole guests schlepping luggage through the lobby must have been danged impressed with the local sights, including Hunter Sullivan crooning in a white dinner jacket and backed by his band.

Hunter Sullivan

Bettye Whiteman and Caren Kline

In front of the bandstand was Ball Chair Caren Kline in a dazzling Marchesa looking like a beautiful cousin of Glenda the Good Witch of the West greeting one and all personally.

Pink Lady and driver

On the walls were life-sized tableaus with moments of NYC grandeur. One glamorized gal was in a shimmering white Gatsby-era party gown. The lady was a John Clutts model and the dress was on loan from Yvonne Crum, who was home nursing a painful knee.

And there was that Pink Lady who wandered through the crowd followed by a chauffeur loaded down with packages.

While some guests checked out the casino, the great majority filled the silent auction area, where delicious items were up for bid. And, of course, the food was everywhere, as were the to-the-ceiling scenes synonymous with Manhattan like Broadway and 42^nd Street. The only thing missing was honking taxi cabs. . . oh, and the mammoth Prometheus ice sculpture that had been slated to be part of the decor. Ironically, the icy conditions had prevented the sculptor from making the delivery the frozen version of the Rockefeller Center titan.

But as yummy as the auction, munchies and scenery were, the guests still were the eye-catchers in their marvelous formal wear. After all, this evening has rightly earned the reputation for being the scene of the most glorious fashions of the year.

Of course, you want names and designers to be dropped, so here goes:

Francie Moody-Dahlberg

Carol Reed

Alicia Wood

Naturally, a sea of black filled the crowd with Carol Reed and Heather Furniss, and Francie Moody-Dahlberg causing whiplash head-turning in her Zuhair Murad. Maybe it was because of the Big Apple theme that the color red gave black a definite run for its money. Baring shoulders in red gowns seemed to be

Wendy Messmann

Brian and Leslie Diers and Sharon and Mike Jones

the look du jour, thanks to Alicia Wood in Carmen Marc Valvo, Pam Perella in Monique Llhuillier, Sharon Jones, Leslie Diers, Wendy Messmann and Claire Emanuelson. On the other hand, Annette Simmons and Mary Clare Finney opted for a long-sleeve look with necklines just made for fabulous necklaces. And, what would CCB be without plenty of Carolina Herrera designs on the scene (Marilyn Augur, Tavia Hunt, Peggy Sewell, Catherine Cox and Maryellen Spears).

Pat McEvoy

However, the one who stopped traffic was Pat McEvoy, who will be in charge of the 2014 10 Best Dressed Fashion Show and Luncheon. Whoa! The blonde must have Jean Harlow in her DNA makeup. She was dazzling in a white and silver Naeem Khan figure-hugging gown with a neckline that dipped just enough. As if that weren’t showstopping enough, Pat topped it off with a snow white marabou jacket. From top to bottom, she was like a diamond. Why, even her toenails were painted pearl white!

When the doors opened to the Chantilly ballroom, it was a spectacle that would have made any New Yorker proud. Against a backdrop of nightlife blues and glimmering whites, mammoth white floral centerpieces were highlighted by suspended spheres with votive candles. The Chantilly’s chandeliers seemed right at home among the glitz and glamour.

Marc and Kailey Shatzer, Megan Somerville and Keith Conlon

Among those filling the room were Angels of Grace Underwriters Annette and Harold Simmons, Gene and Jerry Jones, Lisa and Kenny Troutt, Nancy Rogers with Michael Flores, Caroline Rose Hunt, Mary McDermott Cook with Dan Patterson, Keith Conlon with Megan Somerville, Holly Reed and Brad Beaird, Kailey and Marc Shatzer, Kay Bailey Hutchison, Doris and Jack Jacobs, Kate Rose Marquez with Gillian Breidenbach (husband Mark Breidenbach was supposed to be hunting. Only it was canceled and he showed up briefly in hunting gear to the delight of friends. Then he was gone in the icy night.) Ron Spears, Janie and David Condon, Brent Christopher, Gail and Gerald Turner, Myrna and Bob Schlegel, Mary Clare Finney with Niven Morgan and Megan and Beau Brooks, Carrie and Craig Levering, Katherine and Key Coker and Aileen and Jack Pratt.

Kilgore Rangerettes

On cue, the Kilgore Rangerettes did a mean version of the Rockettes, in between performances by Broadway Babies. The only thing missing was the Empire State Building. But wait! That was still to come.

Back-to-back photographers

After the Rangerettes finished their high-kicking, guests adjourned to fabulous dinners prepared by the Anatole’s Executive Chef Thomas Welther, Executive Banquet Chef Jorge W. Carvajal and Executive Pasty Chef Anwar Kahttabi. And what was served up? How about first course: Maine lobster in frisée, snow peas and sauce Louis with country French and Kalamata rosemary rolls; main course: New York (of course) strip with Delmonico sauce, potatoes Dauphinoise and baby vegetables; and dessert: slices of New York cheesecakes (classic, dark chocolate and milk chocolate) with caramel sauce. Sharing the plate with the cheesecake was a mini-Empire State Building.

Perhaps it was due to the cabin-fever mentality, but the crowd seemed more jovial and relaxed than in years past. Like mischievous children, one table of young bon vivants decided to play with their food. Seems they thought that the lobster shells would make funny noses. Who says CCB is a stuffy affair? And, of course, it didn’t hurt to have the James Davis Orchestra get guests dancing. Then to keep the evening going, Starlight kept the tempo upbeat with Kristen Johnston Sanger leading the way on the dance floor and Marilyn Augur joining the band on stage.

But let’s face it. Some folks were just plain glad to get out of the house, like Nina Vaca-Humrichouse and her husband Jim Humrichouse. They’d been holed up for two days or so in their home with a house-full of relatives, neighbors and kids — eight kids — due to loss of power. Jim confessed, “Xbox works wonders” when you have that many kids around.

As guests left, they found themselves looking like they could have used that Pink Lady’s chauffeur. In addition to the bag that they found at their table that had a Tiffany coffee mug with a NYC theme, the CCB Children’s Book and calendar, they discovered stations where they could fill handy sacks with all types of delicious chocolates and candy. And before making it out the door, they were presented with still another bag containing three bagels and cream cheese for the morning after.

At the beginning of her term as chair, Caren had presented all the committee members with laminated cards listing each of the 2013 CCB beneficiaries to serve as a constant reminder of who was depending on them. The cards may be put aside as keepsakes, but the funds raised for Educational First Steps, Good Street Learning, New Friends New Life, Network of Community Ministries, Parkland, Suicide and Crisis Center, Texas Scottish Rite Hospital and YMCA will soon be put into action for the good of Dallas children.

More photos can be found at MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.

Dallas does it again! For 10 years, the Texas State History Museum Foundation has recognized incredible Texans with the History-Making Texan Award. It spotlights Texans who have “led distinguished careers in both public and private sectors.” You just know this state has a passel of them. It’s hard to pick just a couple each year, but the Foundation has struck gold each year with true-blue winners.

George W. and Laura Bush (File photo)

Like whom? Barbara and Georg H.W. Bush, Lady Bird Johnson, Walter Cronkite, Dr. Michael DeBakey, Rita and Bill Clements, Herb Kelleher, Dolph Briscoe, Darrell K. Royal, Van Cliburn, Bill Hobby, Laura and George W. Bush, Barbara Smith Conrad, Dr. Denton Cooley, Gerald Hines, James A. Baker III, Bob Strauss, Eugene Kranz and George Mitchell. Pretty heady crowd, huh?

BTW, did you notice the number of Dallasites, who have been honored? Try to be humble when you count ‘em up.

Ruth Altshuler (File photo)

Ross Perot (File photo)

Well, once again Dallas came through with a couple of top-notch types! On Saturday, March 1 (the day before Texas Independence Day), the Foundation and the Bullock Texas State History Museum will honor two more Dallasites — Ruth Collins Altshuler and Ross Perot. The philanthropic sweethearts will be feted with a black-tie dinner at the Museum. Can you envision these two at the podium accepting their awards?

Louise Griffeth

Jeanne Phillips (File photo)

Blonde Dallas Co-Chairs Louise Griffeth and Jeanne Phillips are probably organizing a fleet of jets to handle the number of Dallasites headed to Austin for the sold-out party. If you’re one of the lucky few to attend, remember to pack some humility.

No, wait! Forget the humility. Let the world know how proud you are of Ruth and Ross.

Sarah Branch, Charles Branch and Dan Branch

Every year the Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Debutante Presentation seems to get more elegant and youthful. While the write-up is being finished, here are a few photos on the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery for your consideration.

Saturday, February 8, formal wear was abounding all over Dallas. There were some folks who were black-tie party hopping, with the Dallas Symphony Orchestra League as the evening’s goal.

John Clutts and Dr. Sami Arslanlar

For instance, Carolyn Tillery, who has just stepped aside from her Beverly Drive editor’s duties, had to stop by Brook Hollow for John Clutts’ black tie birthday party hosted by Dr. Sami Arslanlar. No doubt she was so glad she did. The place was decked out in black and white with red background lighting in the main dining room. About 120 settled back for dinner including Carolyn and Tav Lupton, Ruth Buzzi and husband Ken Perkins, Jill and Tracy Rowlett (he’s lost about 45 lbs.), Tiffany and Paul Divis, Jean Lattimore, Barbara Brice, Yvonne Crum, Laree Hulshoff and Ben Fischer, Gregory Dunbar and Terry Van Willson. B-day boy John was sporting a dashing black cape. It was a birthday gift from philanthropist  Dee Wyly. Seem the cape had last been worn by Dee’s late husband Charles, who wore it to a White House state dinner back in the ‘70s.

Ah, but we digress.

Fallon Bock and Elizabeth Dorsey

While the DSOL debs rehearsed their Texas-dip bows, checked their cellphones, chilled and stay out of sight, the lower level of the Meyerson was abashed with men in tuxedos and tails and women in glorious colors and jewels. Of course, you want deets, so here goes: Amber Armstrong in shimmering gold Badgley Mischka, Caroline Hall and Emily Johnson in red BCBGeneration, Helen Butler in blue glittering Naeem Kahn, Betty Osborne with Prada shoes and Judith Leiber purse and Katy Bock in Alexander McQueen gown with VBH purse and jewelry from Bachendorf’s (duh!).

Amber Armstrong

Helen and Mike Butler

Betty Osborne and Katy Bock

As the crowd grew, the champagne flowed and cellphones recorded groups of friends. Why, one quartet of pretty young things asked Myrna Schlegel if she would snap their photo with one of their cellphones. Being the mother of three girls, Myrna immediately accommodated.

Myrna Schlegel accommodating

When one of the Honor Guard was asked why he had signed up for the assignment of escorting the deb, he didn’t hesitate — “An open bar and college girls? Oh, yeah!” Well, it was a dumb question when you think of it.

Just before the Meyerson chimes called everyone upstairs to the McDermott Concert Hall, the Honor Guards and deb dads in their white tie and tails accessorized by dashing purple sashes were seen heading up the stairway. They were following their marching orders. After all, Production General Jan Strimple had a schedule to keep and the gents weren’t going to deny her.

Guests found their seats as the James French photography team took their place to record every moment. Then it was time for the presentation of DSOL President Ginger Sager and Ball Chair Dixey Arterburn, who was doing double duty. In addition to heading up the deb season of Mardi Gras-theme parties to raise funds for the Dallas Symphony Orchestra, Dixey was a mother of one of the debs, Libby Arterburn. She introduced the Honorary C-Chairs Gene and Jerry Jones, who briefly stood. Then she thanked her team of co-chairs Sharon Ballew, Cynthia Beaird, Marena Gault and Sharon Popham.

Sharon Ballew, Cynthia Beaird, Marena Gault and Sharon Popham

Master of ceremonies Stan Gardner then introduced the officers of the Assembly and the Honor Guard.

Just before Lauren Allday started off the presentation at the head of the stairs on stage, Stan gently suggested that decorum and respect would be appreciated. That was a mighty test for some of the young guests. Throughout the 38 presentations, an occasional surge of whooping and hollering resounded through the hall. But calm appreciation was the mood of the night.

Grace Godvin

Rebekah McAnalley

Megan Neligan

Well, that is until one of the last debs was presented and a young gent in the back hollered, “You look so goddamn good!” Thanks to the Meyerson’s fabulous acoustics, hundreds heard his words. But by that time, his remarks were greeted with a smile. After all, watching 38 debs execute that killer bow was like watching tryouts for the Olympic figure-skating team. Parents, siblings and friends were relieved that one and all of the debs bowed perfectly and the escorts did their job.

Okay, so one of the cute escorts got a little confused on which direction to leave the stage, as he headed with deb on his arm backstage. Luckily, the deb and Stan redirected him to the stairs leading to the floor. Even then he needed just a little assistance following the aisle to the back of the hall. But don’t go thinking it was an embarrassing moment. Nope! If anything, everyone in the room was appreciative of the break in the perfection and related to the young man’s situation.

Murphy VandeMotter and Kurt VandeMotter

After Murphy VandeMotter and Tommy Schleier exited the stage, the entire group of debs and escorts were presented on stage to the guests. On the side of the stage, the deb fathers, who had been seated along the Terrace, quietly exited for their next test — the opening waltz with their daughters in the lobby. The moms, who had been seated along the center aisle, also paraded out, followed by the guests.

2014 Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Debutantes and Honor Guard Escorts

In the lobby, the white dance floor that earlier had a sign saying, “Don’t walk on the dance floor,” was surrounded by the parents. Guests were everywhere. Some found a perfect viewing spot on the balcony overlooking the band and dance floor.

As the minutes ticked by, Dixey looked at the stairs leading to the hall. She was worried— “Where were the debs?” She needn’t worry. Suddenly the debs in their flowing white gowns and their escorts paraded down the stairs and directly to the dance floor. It was just at the edge of the dance floor where the escorts released the hands of their debs, who spotted their families and rushed to them.

Haley Anderson, Shy and Charlotte Anderson, Libby Arterburn and Dixey Arterburn

Griffin Bayoud, Meredith Bayoud and Vickie and George Bayoud

Jordan Jones, Gene and Jerry Jones and Karen and Stephen Jones

Sarah Branch, Charles Branch and Dan Branch

On one side of the floor Charlotte and Shy Anderson greeted daughter Haley. Nearby Vickie and George Bayoud were joined by deb daughter Meredith and son Griffin. Jordan Jones spotted her parents, Karen and Stephen Jones, as well as grandmother Gene Jones. Ex’s Lawrence Bock and Holly Deason posed for photos with their daughter Fallon. When Sarah Branch stepped on the dance floor, all fingers were pointing her out. But the only one she saw was that of her dad Dan Branch.

As the debs danced with their dads, Dixey smiled. Everything was fine, just fine.

For more photos from the Dallas Symphony Orchestra League Debutante Presentation, please check the MySweetCharity Photo Gallery.

Dallas exploded with fundraising Saturday, February 22. The United Negro College Fund Masked Ball at the Sheraton Dallas, the Resource Center’s Toast to Life at F.I.G. and Bridge Breast Network’s Mardi Gras Party at Million Air Dallas were in high gear. Sure, the temperatures were just brisk enough to require a wrap, but not so miserable as. . . well, what the first of March produced. Here’s just a smattering of what was underway on February 22.

A Night In La Cidade Maravilhosa

The Anatole was filled to near capacity with fundraisers. In addition to the Rotary Club and Greenhill School having their fundraisers, the Junior Leaguers had taken over the Chantilly Ballroom for a two-parter for “Rio Carnival. . . A Night in La Cidade Maravilhosa. . . The Marvelous City,” their 52^nd annual ball. Behind the check-in area was a mask that would have fit the Jolly Green Giant perfectly. The poor life-size elephant sculptures on either side looked a little puny compared to the mask.

Mega-mask

In the lobby was a towering two-story purple and gold glimmering tent with lights and topped off with white ostrich feathers, where the musicians had played during the reception.

One guests commented, “It’s so obvious Tom Addis has been here.”

Amanda Richards and David Pinsel

When the doors opened for dinner, only half of the Chantilly was put into use. The walls were draped in silver lame and in each corner were stages with gold lame backdrops where costumed characters struck poses to the delight of the crowd. Even after the whimsical models had departed, the stages were still put into use by guests like Amanda Richards and David Pinsel striking poses for their friends’ cellphones.

Tables topped with feathers and masks

The tables surrounding the main stage were gorgeous with silver and gold tablecloths, highlighted by narrow pedestals topped with mammoth bouquets of more ostrich and peacock feathers and masks. Pity the poor naked birds that were shivering somewhere.

Wendy Messmann

At 8 JLD President Laura Johnson and Event Chair Wendy Messmann stepped up on stage and greeted the group. Whether it was the lighting, the surrounding glitz or just the glow of success, the gals dazzled one and all receiving cell-phone salutes. But leave it the ladies to graciously acknowledge the evening’s success to Honorary Co-Chairs Margaret Crow and Katherine LaLonde and the 600 guests. As Wendy put it, “In our estimation, no city soul is as large as Dallas’.”

Chris and Katherine LaLonde

Running right on schedule, dinner was served at 8:30 including

• Main Course — Confit duck leg pozole, grilled filet of beef chimichurri, roasted cucurbita (Brazilian winter squash), creamed chayote with chives and green beans sautéed with tomatoes
• Dessert — Cinnamon ice cream chocolate sundae with cinnamon-sugar tortilla crisp

Following Bob Schneider’s entertaining the guests, part two of the evening took place in the other half of the Chantilly Ballroom, where Professor D had guests partying past the wee hours of the evening.

But not everybody stayed way late. Just as dinner was being served, Katy Bock was seen hightailing it to a Range Rover driven by husband Lawrence. Seems she had jeans stashed in the car and was headed for a casual date night with her husband.

The only itty-bitty flaw of the evening was found not in the staging, dining, dancing or fundraising. It was on page 12 of the program, where one of the honorary co-chair’s names was misspelled. Told you it was itty-bitty.

Moonlight Ball

Entry hall

The Ronald McDonald House of Dallas’ Moonlight Ball always seems to be cast in moonbeams at Brook Hollow Golf Club. This year, the lighting cast a purple haze around the dining room; the shimmering blue tablecloths topped off with flowers from Junior Villanueva were a perfect setting for the fundraiser. It’s always special when a crowd buys into a black tie occasion with long gowns and dazzling jewelry.

Jan Daulton and Melinda Emmons

For this evening of dining and dancing, Co-Chairs Jan Daulton and Melinda Emmons arranged to have Signed, Sealed and Delivered play and MoonPies to be snacked on.

Ah, but before that happened the crowd gathered on the patio overlooking the golf course. Melinda was in Oscar topped off by a deBoulle necklace. Jan was in a black gown, but for the life of her couldn’t recall which designer deserved the credit. However, she was wearing a “vintage, sterling-silver necklace” that was mistaken for diamonds at first glance.

Jill Cumnock and Mike and Sally McWilliams

Honorary Co-Chairs/longtime Ronald McDonald supporters Sally and Mike McWilliams kidded about their decades of marriage. Mike: We’re just dating. Sally: “It’s a test run.” However, there was no kidding about Sally’s killer gown. Didn’t matter who the designer was. The news was the cost was $99. With a figure like Sally’s you can make a bargain look spectacular, don’t you know?

Dr. Dale and Jean Fuller

And speaking of long-time newlyweds, Jean and her Dr. Dale Fuller proved that humor is indeed the secret to longevity in marital bliss. Dale described Jean as his “current wife.”

Eventually, all the 150 guests made their way to the ballroom for a seated dinner that included

• First Course — Brook Hollow Golf Club signature salad (Mesclun greens, caramelized pecans, stilton cheese, dried cherries, granny smith apples, grape tomatoes and balsamic dressing)
• Duet Entrée — Petite filet of beef with a red wine sauce, crispy seared sea bass served with a lemon herb meuniére sauce, wild mushroom risotto, haricots verts and whole baby Carrots with Caramelized pearl onions
• Dessert — Bailey’s molten cake with caramel ice cream served with coffee

Cowboys And Cowboys

All types of cowboys — both football (Tony Dorsett, Walt Garrison, Bob Lilly, Tony Lisco, Dan Mcihenny, Nate Newton and Charles Haley) and rodeo types (Dave Appleton, Bob Logue, Scott Mendes, Matt Austin and Pat Yancey) — were partying over at the Omni Hotel for the Cowboys and Cowboys Sky Ranch Gala. Naturally the attire was western. You were expecting kilts?

Michael Irvin, Andrew Alvarado, Charles Haley, Tony Dorsett and Darren Woodson*

To add some legs to the event that benefited Sky Ranch, the always adorable Kilgore Rangerettes “marched in with the Color Guard” and former Sky Ranch camper Christian Barham sang the national anthem.

Christian Barham and the Kilgore College Rangerettes*

Joining Co-Chairs Walt Garrison and Rope Myers was Honorary Celebrity Chair/former Dallas Cowboy/Hall of Famer/ever-natty Michael Irvin, who  “spoke passionately about how Sky Ranch makes such a positive impact on a young person’s life. He urged attendees to really show their support to help send deserving kids to camp. He was also a lively participant in getting folks to bid on the golf outing with him along with a golf pro and travel on a private plane to a course in Colorado. Irvin also got bids going for guests to come to NY for the NFL Experience Show.”

Unfortunately, part of the fundraising included the live auction of a lab puppy. Oops! It’s been illegal for five years to auction off an animal for fundraising purposes in the city of Dallas. While no arrests were made, you want to bet no pooches nor ponies will be up for bid again?

* Photos provided by Cowboys and Cowboys

Dallas has gotten used to being invaded by Longhorns during Texas-OU weekend. Well, it was a Dallas invasion of Austin back on Saturday, March 1 (aka Texas Independence Day eve). The boldest faces of North Texas headed to The Bullock Museum in the state capital for a black-tie supper to celebrate Ruth Altshuler’s and Ross Perot’s receiving the History-Making Texas Awards.

Jan Bullock and Ross Perot Sr.*

The award was created 10 years ago to “recognize living Texas legends whose contributions to the state and the nation have been truly historic and exceptional in scope and nature. Honorees are selected for extraordinary accomplishments within their field and community.”

Past recipients have been Barbara and President George H.W. Bush, Lady Bird Johnson, Walter Cronkite, Ambassador Robert Strauss, Herb Kelleher, Dr. Denton Cooley, Van Cliburn, Coach Daryl Royal, Secretary of State James Baker, Laura and President George W. Bush, Rita and Gov. Bill Clements, Barbara Conrad, Gene Krantz and George Mitchell.

Thanks to the Dallas contingent, Austin never looked so good thanks to Mayor Mike Rawlings, Nancy and Jeremy Halbreich, Patty and James Huffines, Perots by the scores, Nancy Dedman, Lynn and Allan McBee, Mary and Jack Balagia, Jimmy Westcott, Debbie and Alan Raynor, Linda and John McFarland, Sara Martineau, Marnie and Kern Wildenthal, Gail and Gerald Turner, Linda and Bill Custard, Linda Evans, Caren Prothro,  Brent Christopher, Sheila and Jody Grant, Gloria and John Hammack and, of course, Event Co-Chairs Louise Griffeth and Jeanne Phillips. Dang, but those Dallas folks look good.

Jeanne Phillips and Louise and Guy Griffeth*

According to a field report,

“Former First Lady and past History-Making Texan Honoree Laura Bush introduced Ruth while General Jim Jones did the honors for Ross Perot. Dallas Mayor Mike Rawlings gave the Invocation and General Hugh Cox led us in the pledge of allegiance.”

Laura Bush*

One of the evening’s highlights was former First Lady Laura Bush’s introduction of Ruth. Without a note, she shared and even surprised some old friends and fans with tales about Ruth. At one point, Laura told of “Ruth and her men.”

Ruth Altshuler*

Without missing a beat, Ruth announced from the podium, “I am not Elizabeth Taylor. Ken and I have been married 27 years!”

(FYI: Ruth’s first husband was killed in a “World War II bombing raid over Tokyo”; her second husband Charles Sharp died of Parkinson’s after 37 years of marriage and current husband Dr. Ken Altshuler is alive and very well.)

For a list of the event sponsors, just follow the jump!

Photos provided by History-Making Texans committee

• A Lasting Tribute — The Eugene McDermott Foundation, Ruth and Ken Altshuler, Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Blakemore, Hunt Consolidated Inc., Gene and Jerry Jones and Margot and Ross Perot
• Lone Star Supporter — Louise and Guy Griffeth, Gloria and Jack Hammack, Sarah and Ross Perot Jr., U.S. Trust and PlainsCapital Bank
• Sam Houston Sponsor — Ambassador and Mrs. Lyndon L. Olson Jr., Buena Vista Foundation, Bud Light/Silver Eagle Distributors, CenterPoint Energy Inc., Barbara and Gerald D. Hines, Luther King Capital Management and Penn Davis McFarland Inc.
• Friends of 1836 — Anonymous, AT&T Texas, Jane and John Barnhill, Jan Bullock and Robert Green/Kimberly and Jim Taylor, Children’s Medical Center of Dallas, Susan Combs and Joe W. Duran, St. David’s HealthCare, ExxonMobil, Frost Bank, H-E-B, Al G. Hill Jr., Lyda Hill, IBC Bank, In memory of Harold Simmons, Anne and Clay Johnson, Richard King IV, Cynthia and Brian McLaughlin/Michelle Brock, Debbie and John T. Montford, Erle Nye, Julie and Pat Oles/Karen and Karl Rove, Dian Graves Owen Foundation, Hon. Jeanne L. Phillips, Vin and Caren Prothro Foundation, Debbie and Alan Raynor/Association of Electric Companies of Texas, Mr. and Mrs. Elliott Roosevelt Jr., Peggy and Carl Sewell, Lindsay and Ford Smith, Spoetzl Brewery, Strake Foundation, Judy and Charles Tate and Scott Whitworth
• Museum Supporters — Charla Borchers Leon, Nancy and Gene Carter, Vivien and Scott Caven, A.L. Chilton Foundation, Carrielu and Chuck Christensen, Mrs. Trammell Crow, Nancy M. Dedman, Lt. Gov. and Mrs. David Dewhurst, Linda Perryman Evans, Mr. and Mrs. James A. Gibbs, Herndon Family Foundation, Sarita and Bob Hixon, Woody and Gayle Hunt Family Foundation, University of Texas at Austin President Bill Powers, Mary John Spence, Nancy E. Underwood and Jimmy Westcott
• Special Friends — Anonymous, Nell O. Beck, Mr. and Mrs. Louise A. Beecherl III, Ginger and Jack Blanton, Nancy Brinker Charitable Foundation, Sophia and G.W. Brock, Michelle and B. Tim Brookshire, Peggy and Web Carr, Vicki and Bob Chapman, Brent Christopher, Robyn and Don Conlon, Cheryl S. Cotner, Covert Chevrolet Oldsmobile, Mr. and Mrs. William A. Custard, Rebecca and Mark Davis, Debbie and Jim Francis, Ginger Head Gearheart, Linda H. Gibbons, Mrs. Milton S. Greeson Sr., Mrs. Helen K. Groves, Nancy and Jeremy Halbreich, Rita and Henry Hortenstine, Caroline Rose Hunt, Shannon and Kyle Janek, Charlotte and John Kimberlin, Mr. and Mrs. Truett Latimer, Richard Leshin, T.C. Lupton Jr. Family Foundation, Dr. and Mrs. Hans Mark, Sara and David Martineau, Lynn McBee, Judge and Mrs. F.B. (Bob) McGregor Jr., Harvey and Joyce Mitchell Family Foundation, Karen and Chip Oswalt, Robert and Mary Pickering, Mr. and Mrs. Edward W. Rose, Jennifer and Ed Sampson, Carol Seay, Texas A&M University Systems Chancellor John Sharp, Weisie and John Steen, Susan K. Stone, Louann and Larry Temple, John M. Collins Foundation, Marilyn and Ben Weber and Pam and George Willeford.

If every fundraising event has a driving force behind it, there’s no doubt the person behind the inaugural Fashion Stars for a Cause gala at the Dallas Country Club was Yvonne Crum. Crum, who served as chair for the Friday, March 21 event benefiting the Suicide and Crisis Center of North Texas, was fussing like a nervous stage mother as guests thronged the club for the pre-dinner reception.

John Clutts and Carolyn Tillery*

Breaking away from the excited, black-tie crowd that included the likes of Carolyn Lupton, Jean Lattimore, Jill Rowlett, Dee Wyly, Martha and Donnie Miller, Carolyn and Bryant Tillery, John Clutts and Tiffany and Paul Divis, Yvonne dashed into the ballroom to make sure everything was perfect. And everything was—including the flowers, which had been underwritten by Linda and Steve Ivy. “We’re at 279 people now, in a ballroom made for 260,” Yvonne said. And, with a $200K fundraising goal, she confided, they were at well over $150K—and still counting.

Carolyn Lupton and Jean Lattimore*

Ten or 15 minutes later, the guests filed into the ballroom for the main event. After a welcome by Beverly Drive Editor-in-Chief Taylor Bacic, whose magazine devoted a number of pages to the Fashion Stars, the partygoers tucked into a delicious dinner of poached pear salad, breast of chicken, smoked corn puree, garlic roasted mashed potatoes and chocolate mousse cake.

Terry Bentley Hill and Margie Wright*

As they did so, Terry Bentley Hill, who would be the evening’s keynote speaker, helped bring on the Fashion Stars, who’d been outfitted in frocks from Tootsies’ with the expert assistance of Priya Rathod. One by one they strode the runway: Ashley Burghardt, Britt Harless, Janee Hill, Antonio Hubert, Toni Munoz Hunt, Hilary Kennedy, Regina Bruce, Rhonda Marcus, Robin Brock, Carla Miller, Alex Small, and Cynthia Smoot.

Jill Rowlett, Toni Munoz Hunt and Dee Wyly*

Then it was time for the talking. Yvonne began, naturally, and introduced the evening’s honorary chairs, Melody and Rick Rogers. Said Yvonne, “I asked Melody if she wanted to talk and she said, ‘No, you’ll do enough talking for both of us.’ ” After a few words of greeting from Margie Wright, executive director of the suicide and crisis center, keynoter Bentley Hill spoke inspirationally about the recovery process after a friend or family member takes their own life.

Yvonne Crum and Rick and Melody Rogers*

Bentley Hill, who lost a husband and a 14-year-old daughter to suicide, said, “You never get over it, but you do get better.” She also said she believes in “Godly intervention” in some cases. One she cited: that of a Golden Gate Bridge jumper who survived the long drop into the deep water, then found himself being nudged upward through the depths by a helpful sea lion.

To close out the evening, a group of friends surprised Yvonne by arranging for something special. “It’s not a naked man, is it?” she cracked. Instead, it was a special performance of one of her favorite songs, “For Good,” from the Broadway musical The Wiz. But this song had special lyrics: “Because we knew you, Yvonne, we have been changed for good …”

Two standing ovations later, the wet-eyed chair thanked everyone for coming, then told them goodnight. “I’m not sure if I’m going to heaven or hell,” Yvonne couldn’t resist adding. “But whichever it is, I’m going to be in charge of the raffle.”

Photo credit: Danny Campbell